Ok. I really like this idea.
Me & my partner have been together on and off for a few years. We just had a babyboy. I still feel the passion for him but he does not feel the same way. we get along just fine now but he has not been affectionate twards me in over a year. he says he still finds me attractive and claims i look great after having a baby but he says he just wants to wait to be affectionate twards me until he feels comfortable with me.
I have left him quite a few times because of some issues we had but we love each other. He has this fear of me leaving again and that is why he wants to wait. He wants to wait and see if our relationship is going to last.
We split up the day before easter 2010 and we got back together june 24, 2010 (the day our son was born). so we have been back together for 5 months now and we dont make out or have sex. we dont even cuddle. my self of steam has decreased because i feel like he is affraid of me. I have been trying everything to prove to him that i am not going anywhere. I love him. I love him even more now that he is the father of my baby. I am willing to try everything to make this relationship work.
Everyone i know tells me i seem miserable because of the lack of affection. i live in ohio and my dad lives in texas he keeps telling me that he will buy me and the baby a plane ticket to fly to texas and live with him but that is not happing because i love my partner and i am not taking our son accrossed the country away from his father.
I have tried this method but he just talks over me or laughs and ignores me. so talking about the good past just isnt working because he doesnt want to talk about love... it is really imature and i hate it. i want him to hear what i have to say about our relationship because i love him but he avoids it every time. I dont know what else to do.
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Ok. I really like this idea.
Me & my partner have been together on and off for a few years. We just had a babyboy. I still feel the passion for him but he does not feel the same way. we get along just fine now but he has not been affectionate twards me in over a year. he says he still finds me attractive and claims i look great after having a baby but he says he just wants to wait to be affectionate twards me until he feels comfortable with me.
I have left him quite a few times because of some issues we had but we love each other. He has this fear of me leaving again and that is why he wants to wait. He wants to wait and see if our relationship is going to last.
We split up the day before easter 2010 and we got back together june 24, 2010 (the day our son was born). so we have been back together for 5 months now and we dont make out or have sex. we dont even cuddle. my self of steam has decreased because i feel like he is affraid of me. I have been trying everything to prove to him that i am not going anywhere. I love him. I love him even more now that he is the father of my baby. I am willing to try everything to make this relationship work.
Everyone i know tells me i seem miserable because of the lack of affection. i live in ohio and my dad lives in texas he keeps telling me that he will buy me and the baby a plane ticket to fly to texas and live with him but that is not happing because i love my partner and i am not taking our son accrossed the country away from his father.
I have tried this method but he just talks over me or laughs and ignores me. so talking about the good past just isnt working because he doesnt want to talk about love... it is really imature and i hate it. i want him to hear what i have to say about our relationship because i love him but he avoids it every time. I dont know what else to do.
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