Dear moevysan,
We are here to help you and I will try my best to calm your concerns and answer your questions.
Choosing to be sexually intimate with your boyfriend is just that- a choice. If you do not feel ready for this next step in the relationship, you can say no until you do feel ready.
Pain upon penetration most likely happened because you were not adequately aroused. Foreplay or fondling of the genitalia before intercourse allows you to become sexually stimulated. When you are aroused, you will notice an increase in vaginal lubrication and this will make penetration easier, less painful and you will enjoy the experience. Being anxious, as it sounds you were, you found this first sexual experience painful.
Here is the link to an article that should help answer your question
https://www.empowher.com/pregnancy/content/conception-facts
https://www.empowher.com/pregnancy/content/am-i-pregnant-myths-and-facts-about-sex
I would suggest that you visit your doctor or a clinic to discuss the best form of birth control for you. I do not feel comfortable advising you whether or not you should take the emergency contraceptive pill. Again, I suggest you visit your doctor, a clinic or center like Planned Parenthood for advise on taking the emergency contraceptive pill.
Please come back to us if we can be of further help, you are not alone and we are here for you.
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Dear moevysan,
March 1, 2011 - 5:50pmWe are here to help you and I will try my best to calm your concerns and answer your questions.
Choosing to be sexually intimate with your boyfriend is just that- a choice. If you do not feel ready for this next step in the relationship, you can say no until you do feel ready.
Pain upon penetration most likely happened because you were not adequately aroused. Foreplay or fondling of the genitalia before intercourse allows you to become sexually stimulated. When you are aroused, you will notice an increase in vaginal lubrication and this will make penetration easier, less painful and you will enjoy the experience. Being anxious, as it sounds you were, you found this first sexual experience painful.
Here is the link to an article that should help answer your question
https://www.empowher.com/pregnancy/content/conception-facts
https://www.empowher.com/pregnancy/content/am-i-pregnant-myths-and-facts-about-sex
I would suggest that you visit your doctor or a clinic to discuss the best form of birth control for you. I do not feel comfortable advising you whether or not you should take the emergency contraceptive pill. Again, I suggest you visit your doctor, a clinic or center like Planned Parenthood for advise on taking the emergency contraceptive pill.
Please come back to us if we can be of further help, you are not alone and we are here for you.
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