Hi Anonymous,
Marriage can bring changes to a relationship. By this, I mean, unless you were living with your husband before you were married, now you are always together. There are now new stresses like paying bills together, how you spend money...money issues can put stress on a relationship and stifle the "fires of romance". Sharing or delegating household chores such as who does the laundry, who is responsible for housecleaning...are also stress factors.
Have you shared your feeling with your husband? Maybe creating a romantic mood or having a "date night" might bring a spark to your sex life. Plan a romantic evening with a candlelight dinner, mood music (no TV) and then indulge each other in foreplay before actually having sex.
Here is the link to articles that might be helpful :
https://www.empowher.com/media/reference/truth-about-orgasms
https://www.empowher.com/sexual-well-being/content/role-emotional-connection-orgasm
As with any activity, to avoid boredom...try some creativity.
Good Luck!
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Hi Anonymous,
March 17, 2011 - 4:39pmMarriage can bring changes to a relationship. By this, I mean, unless you were living with your husband before you were married, now you are always together. There are now new stresses like paying bills together, how you spend money...money issues can put stress on a relationship and stifle the "fires of romance". Sharing or delegating household chores such as who does the laundry, who is responsible for housecleaning...are also stress factors.
Have you shared your feeling with your husband? Maybe creating a romantic mood or having a "date night" might bring a spark to your sex life. Plan a romantic evening with a candlelight dinner, mood music (no TV) and then indulge each other in foreplay before actually having sex.
Here is the link to articles that might be helpful :
https://www.empowher.com/media/reference/truth-about-orgasms
https://www.empowher.com/sexual-well-being/content/role-emotional-connection-orgasm
As with any activity, to avoid boredom...try some creativity.
Good Luck!
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