Hi SaintSinner,
Honestly, I think only you and your husband can answer your opening question. Have you talked to your husband about your boredom during sex with him? When you mention that there have been changes from when you were dating to now, that you are married, this raises the question of how old are you? how long have you been married? how tired is your husband from work, etc. when you decide to have sex?
Rather than asking who has the problem, might I suggest seeking intervention from a professional couples' counselor. Working together, under the guidance of a trained counselor, you and your husband can achieve mutual satisfaction in your sex life.
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Hi SaintSinner,
March 29, 2011 - 4:35pmHonestly, I think only you and your husband can answer your opening question. Have you talked to your husband about your boredom during sex with him? When you mention that there have been changes from when you were dating to now, that you are married, this raises the question of how old are you? how long have you been married? how tired is your husband from work, etc. when you decide to have sex?
Rather than asking who has the problem, might I suggest seeking intervention from a professional couples' counselor. Working together, under the guidance of a trained counselor, you and your husband can achieve mutual satisfaction in your sex life.
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