To help you find the reason for your boyfriend's lack of interest, let's look at what you said about the relationship.
How old is he and how old are you? With aging, men have lower testosterone levels and experience low sex drive.
If I may ask, who much do you weigh? You mention a weight gain of 20 pounds in a 6 month period with a recent weight loss of 2.5 pounds. If you are overweight, your boyfriend may no longer find you attractive. This may be a reason for his decreased interest in having sex with you.
You mentioned that you had hip surgery in 2009 and are not very physically active. Your decreased level of activity may be something that your boyfriend cannot deal with.
You mention an issue with substance abuse. Were you dealing with this throughout your relationship? Does your boyfriend have a substance abuse issue? How does he feel about this? This may also be contributing to the problem with your relationship.
If you are no longer living together, it is quite possible that he is now in a relationship with another woman.
Only your boyfriend can tell you why he no longer wants to be sexually intimate with you. I hope that he can be honest with you. You deserve to be loved and be happy.
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To help you find the reason for your boyfriend's lack of interest, let's look at what you said about the relationship.
How old is he and how old are you? With aging, men have lower testosterone levels and experience low sex drive.
If I may ask, who much do you weigh? You mention a weight gain of 20 pounds in a 6 month period with a recent weight loss of 2.5 pounds. If you are overweight, your boyfriend may no longer find you attractive. This may be a reason for his decreased interest in having sex with you.
You mentioned that you had hip surgery in 2009 and are not very physically active. Your decreased level of activity may be something that your boyfriend cannot deal with.
You mention an issue with substance abuse. Were you dealing with this throughout your relationship? Does your boyfriend have a substance abuse issue? How does he feel about this? This may also be contributing to the problem with your relationship.
If you are no longer living together, it is quite possible that he is now in a relationship with another woman.
Only your boyfriend can tell you why he no longer wants to be sexually intimate with you. I hope that he can be honest with you. You deserve to be loved and be happy.
Maryann
January 23, 2012 - 6:21pmThis Comment
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