You have been checked out by doctor why you are not having monthly periods? By chance are you long distance runner or extremely worried about weight? Both those and just stress can stop your periods.
I think if you can, each of you go to your own parents and ask them to stop applying pressure about having a child. It is putting too much stress on you and back firing.
As to the pain..also did you have check up? It could be your husband is very large,or you have anxiety about it now due to pressure by your family.
Try taking a nice bubble bath, either by yourself or together with candles, music anything that is relaxing to you. Than start out with just giving one another body massage. You could even take a few classes in it together. So that sex is not primary but additional pleasure that if you have bath than the right kind of massage where he can make sure you are aroused...so you might say what feels sensual, what is relaxing ...so he can work on sensual side more but keep you relaxed...also use lubricants that can be slide inside you. Let him tease you and you him...
Even have glass of wine during the bath or now...smoke some pot..both will relax you. than slowly as you are ready enjoy sex.
You have heard about people who adopt than have child...because all pressure was taken off themselves. they relaxed.
But first get medical check up...you may need to put on some weight or exercise little less. hope this helps..
also there are so many kids who need adopting...not babies but older children, 3 up...they so want loving parents. so might consider that as option now. than who knows you might have one of your own !!
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You have been checked out by doctor why you are not having monthly periods? By chance are you long distance runner or extremely worried about weight? Both those and just stress can stop your periods.
March 11, 2012 - 6:28amI think if you can, each of you go to your own parents and ask them to stop applying pressure about having a child. It is putting too much stress on you and back firing.
As to the pain..also did you have check up? It could be your husband is very large,or you have anxiety about it now due to pressure by your family.
Try taking a nice bubble bath, either by yourself or together with candles, music anything that is relaxing to you. Than start out with just giving one another body massage. You could even take a few classes in it together. So that sex is not primary but additional pleasure that if you have bath than the right kind of massage where he can make sure you are aroused...so you might say what feels sensual, what is relaxing ...so he can work on sensual side more but keep you relaxed...also use lubricants that can be slide inside you. Let him tease you and you him...
Even have glass of wine during the bath or now...smoke some pot..both will relax you. than slowly as you are ready enjoy sex.
You have heard about people who adopt than have child...because all pressure was taken off themselves. they relaxed.
But first get medical check up...you may need to put on some weight or exercise little less. hope this helps..
also there are so many kids who need adopting...not babies but older children, 3 up...they so want loving parents. so might consider that as option now. than who knows you might have one of your own !!
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