Sometimes, things, like one's sex life, will change after the birth of a child. But, usually, these changes are temporary. A new mother and father may be tired because of sleepless nights that result following the baby's birth. New concerns, such as financial worries, about being able to provide for the child can arise. All of these factors can push the desire to be intimate into the background.
However, it seems that your husband has lost all interest in being affectionate with you. Would he agree to seeing a couple's counselor? Or would both of you feel more comfortable talking with your doctor? Sharing your problem with your obstetrician may be helpful.
In order to make your sexual relationship healthy again, the two of you need to work on it together, with the help of a trained professional, who may be able to find the real reason that your husband has lost his sex drive.
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Hello isina,
Sometimes, things, like one's sex life, will change after the birth of a child. But, usually, these changes are temporary. A new mother and father may be tired because of sleepless nights that result following the baby's birth. New concerns, such as financial worries, about being able to provide for the child can arise. All of these factors can push the desire to be intimate into the background.
However, it seems that your husband has lost all interest in being affectionate with you. Would he agree to seeing a couple's counselor? Or would both of you feel more comfortable talking with your doctor? Sharing your problem with your obstetrician may be helpful.
In order to make your sexual relationship healthy again, the two of you need to work on it together, with the help of a trained professional, who may be able to find the real reason that your husband has lost his sex drive.
Maryann
March 29, 2012 - 5:03pmThis Comment
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