I am glad that you feel comfortable talking to me about this. I can appreciate that this is a very delicate and private situation, that you cannot discuss easily with someone.
I suspect that the root of your sexual problem lies in what you said about your boyfriend feeling inferior in comparison to you. This is the issue that you need to focus on.
If you really love your guy, you must put your feeling of not being sexually satisfied on the shelf, temporarily. Work hard at focusing on his assets, his interests and praise him, but sincerely. Don't focus on his sexual performance. Focus attention on him. Make him feel special. Boost his ego.
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Hi Anonymous,
I am glad that you feel comfortable talking to me about this. I can appreciate that this is a very delicate and private situation, that you cannot discuss easily with someone.
I suspect that the root of your sexual problem lies in what you said about your boyfriend feeling inferior in comparison to you. This is the issue that you need to focus on.
If you really love your guy, you must put your feeling of not being sexually satisfied on the shelf, temporarily. Work hard at focusing on his assets, his interests and praise him, but sincerely. Don't focus on his sexual performance. Focus attention on him. Make him feel special. Boost his ego.
Keep in touch,
Maryann
November 6, 2013 - 6:18pmThis Comment
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