Thank you for seeking our help with your concerns and feelings about your relationship. It is apparent that you both need intervention if this relationship to be saved.
You have major issues that must be addressed honestly and resolved before you go forward with a wedding.
As an objected observer, I see that your boyfriend has one concept of how you should spend time together and your perspective is at the opposite end of the spectrum. There must be a compromise and respect for each other's view.
Would you and your boyfriend be open to counseling? As a Catholic, I am aware of pre-nuptial counseling. With the right clergyman, it is very beneficial. Depending on your faith, would meeting with a spiritual leader help? If not, would you consider a couple's counselor?
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Hello Moi,
Thank you for seeking our help with your concerns and feelings about your relationship. It is apparent that you both need intervention if this relationship to be saved.
You have major issues that must be addressed honestly and resolved before you go forward with a wedding.
As an objected observer, I see that your boyfriend has one concept of how you should spend time together and your perspective is at the opposite end of the spectrum. There must be a compromise and respect for each other's view.
Would you and your boyfriend be open to counseling? As a Catholic, I am aware of pre-nuptial counseling. With the right clergyman, it is very beneficial. Depending on your faith, would meeting with a spiritual leader help? If not, would you consider a couple's counselor?
Moi, don't give up yet.
Regards,
August 17, 2014 - 7:00amMaryann
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