Welcome to EmpowHER and thank you for reaching out to our community for advice.
Sometimes, when a couple either move in to live together or get married, the desire to have sex frequently diminishes. Being together all the time, fatigue from working long hours, and sharing or not sharing household chores and expenses can affect libido.
Set realistic goals. How often do you initiate sex? Is it on your boyfriend's days off or shortly after he completes a 12 hour shift?
Do you and your boyfriend have other interests and activities that you share?
Just maybe, if you took a step back and didn't initiate sex or pressure him to have sex, he might be curious enough to want to take the lead. Make him want you like he did before.
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Hello Someone,
Welcome to EmpowHER and thank you for reaching out to our community for advice.
Sometimes, when a couple either move in to live together or get married, the desire to have sex frequently diminishes. Being together all the time, fatigue from working long hours, and sharing or not sharing household chores and expenses can affect libido.
Set realistic goals. How often do you initiate sex? Is it on your boyfriend's days off or shortly after he completes a 12 hour shift?
Do you and your boyfriend have other interests and activities that you share?
Just maybe, if you took a step back and didn't initiate sex or pressure him to have sex, he might be curious enough to want to take the lead. Make him want you like he did before.
Regards,
March 12, 2015 - 8:32amMaryann
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