Welcome to EmpowHER and thank you for seeking our help with your concerns.
With the first situation, there was no risk for pregnancy because you were both wearing underwear and it happened the day after your period ended.
You become pregnant when you are ovulating (one of your ovaries has released an egg) and you have unprotected vaginal intercourse, where he inserts his penis into your vagina and ejaculates.
No risk for pregnancy with the second situation because he did not have any semen on his fingers. Pre ejaculate fluid does not always contain sperm. It is the clear, colorless, viscous fluid that is emitted from the urethra of the penis during sexual arousal.
It may contain sperm if the male has had a very recent ejaculation and has not passed urine. Following an ejaculation, some sperm can remain in the urethra. But, when he urinates, that sperm is flushed out with his urine.
If you want to successfully cope and manage your anxiety levels, you need to seek the help of a counselor, therapist or psychologist trained in this area. You need face to face contact. Using the internet won't be effective. Yes, it will cost. Consider any free or low cost health services or clinics in your area.
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Hello Anonymous,
Welcome to EmpowHER and thank you for seeking our help with your concerns.
With the first situation, there was no risk for pregnancy because you were both wearing underwear and it happened the day after your period ended.
You become pregnant when you are ovulating (one of your ovaries has released an egg) and you have unprotected vaginal intercourse, where he inserts his penis into your vagina and ejaculates.
No risk for pregnancy with the second situation because he did not have any semen on his fingers. Pre ejaculate fluid does not always contain sperm. It is the clear, colorless, viscous fluid that is emitted from the urethra of the penis during sexual arousal.
It may contain sperm if the male has had a very recent ejaculation and has not passed urine. Following an ejaculation, some sperm can remain in the urethra. But, when he urinates, that sperm is flushed out with his urine.
If you want to successfully cope and manage your anxiety levels, you need to seek the help of a counselor, therapist or psychologist trained in this area. You need face to face contact. Using the internet won't be effective. Yes, it will cost. Consider any free or low cost health services or clinics in your area.
Regards,
August 3, 2015 - 8:45amMaryann
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