Welcome to the EmpowHER community. Thank you for sharing your frustration. Sometimes it helps just to vent your feelings.
Lets pick up on your boyfriend's fear that you could become pregnant again.
Was your first pregnancy planned? Was he agreeable to have a baby so soon after moving in together? Are you currently on birth control?
What type of job does your boyfriend have? How many hours does he work in a day and how many days a week does he go to work? Being too tired from hard work and long hours, coupled with lack of sleep with a baby in the house, will surely decrease his interest in sex.
Begging for sex is definitely a turn off. Step back. Start using birth control to decrease his fear of a second pregnancy. Keep the lines of communication open. Consider couple's counseling.
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Hello doramus06,
Welcome to the EmpowHER community. Thank you for sharing your frustration. Sometimes it helps just to vent your feelings.
Lets pick up on your boyfriend's fear that you could become pregnant again.
Was your first pregnancy planned? Was he agreeable to have a baby so soon after moving in together? Are you currently on birth control?
What type of job does your boyfriend have? How many hours does he work in a day and how many days a week does he go to work? Being too tired from hard work and long hours, coupled with lack of sleep with a baby in the house, will surely decrease his interest in sex.
Begging for sex is definitely a turn off. Step back. Start using birth control to decrease his fear of a second pregnancy. Keep the lines of communication open. Consider couple's counseling.
Regards,
September 4, 2015 - 9:03amMaryann
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