Welcome to EmpowHER. Thank you for reaching out to our community with your concern regarding your husband's lack of interest in having sex.I am glad that you approach the subject with him. You must respect his answer that he just doesn't think about having sex.
Do you sense your husband has any concern about his lack of interest? If so, he may want to speak with his primary care physician to rule out a physical cause, particularly erectile dysfunction.
Another factor is age. How old is he? Fatigue from general aging to work related coupled with lower testosterone levels may play a role.
Maybe, you can share your feelings with him. Keep it brief. You lose a man's interest when talking about feelings within five minutes. Keep your emotions in check. Don't bring it up often or persist. He may interpret that as nagging.
Most importantly, enjoy the loving relationship and enduring marriage you share. Make the most of the time together doing the things you enjoy.
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Hello Anonymous,
Welcome to EmpowHER. Thank you for reaching out to our community with your concern regarding your husband's lack of interest in having sex.I am glad that you approach the subject with him. You must respect his answer that he just doesn't think about having sex.
Do you sense your husband has any concern about his lack of interest? If so, he may want to speak with his primary care physician to rule out a physical cause, particularly erectile dysfunction.
Another factor is age. How old is he? Fatigue from general aging to work related coupled with lower testosterone levels may play a role.
Maybe, you can share your feelings with him. Keep it brief. You lose a man's interest when talking about feelings within five minutes. Keep your emotions in check. Don't bring it up often or persist. He may interpret that as nagging.
Most importantly, enjoy the loving relationship and enduring marriage you share. Make the most of the time together doing the things you enjoy.
Regards,
July 1, 2016 - 1:27pmMaryann
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