Welcome to EmpowHER. Thank you for reaching out to our community for advice.
This is a very personal matter and you may have opened yourself to a variety of suggestions.
Do you and your boyfriend share any common interests? Do you both engage in any activities other than sex?
I am sorry to hear that you suffer from bad body images of yourself and occasional depression. This cannot be helping matters.
As difficult as it may be, you and your boyfriend must talk about this. With openness and honesty, you can tell him how all of this makes you feel, and hopefully, he can tell you why he has pornographic photos on his phone and is avoiding intimacy with you.
Equally difficult is the realization that this is not a relationship but a sexual hook up that he has grown tired of.
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Hello Anonymous,
Welcome to EmpowHER. Thank you for reaching out to our community for advice.
This is a very personal matter and you may have opened yourself to a variety of suggestions.
Do you and your boyfriend share any common interests? Do you both engage in any activities other than sex?
I am sorry to hear that you suffer from bad body images of yourself and occasional depression. This cannot be helping matters.
As difficult as it may be, you and your boyfriend must talk about this. With openness and honesty, you can tell him how all of this makes you feel, and hopefully, he can tell you why he has pornographic photos on his phone and is avoiding intimacy with you.
Equally difficult is the realization that this is not a relationship but a sexual hook up that he has grown tired of.
We are here for you,
July 22, 2016 - 12:37pmMaryann
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