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Am asingle mom of 3. My husband died 6yrs go when i was 26 and am now 32years old. Relationships are not working for me because no man wants awoman who cant bear him children. I dont want to conceive again as my 3 kids are more than enough for me.

By Anonymous September 6, 2014 - 3:12pm
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Hi Anon,

Thank you for sharing your question with the EmpowHER community! I am so sorry to hear about your husband six years ago. 

I understand your dilemma. Many people want to raise families at some point in their lives, and as you already have three children and do not want anymore, it can be tough to find a man who also doesn't want kids too.

One thing I would recommend is trying out a dating website. On dating websites you can select specific characteristics you are looking for in a relationship like age, hair color, and even whether someone wants to have children or not. You can say you have children but are not interested in having more. Dating sites are a common way for many people to find relationships today, and you can specify exactly what you are looking for in a relationship at the beginning.

I hope this helped! Please keep me updated and let me know if you have further questions. 


September 7, 2014 - 1:34pm
(reply to Erin Kennedy)

Thanks Erin,
Am grateful for your great help. I will forever be grateful to you.

September 8, 2014 - 9:03am
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