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Hi, I'm 21 years old. I haven't had sex, until yesterday, I think. I'm so worried to get pregnant. It is my first time I do something like that. My boyfriend and I were fooling around, and he asked me if he could penetrate me, in the first time he asked me, I said no; but later I changed my mind, and I told him that just the tip of his penis...but with the condom on. So, he put it on and he tried to penetrate me, but it hurt so bad that my reaction was to remove myself from there...He tried several times to get inside....thing that didn't happen,,,I believe...I may said that only his tip got inside a little bit....I really don't know!....but I'm so sure that he didn't get all the way inside...I can't stop thinking if I may be pregnant...we used condom....but those feelings of concern are there............& now all down there hurts.......and I'm paranoid....I'm considering in taking the next day pill, but my boyfriend says that I should not take it....because he says he did not cum.......
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Thank you for helping me to clear my doubts. I'm new in this type of situations, and sometimes I'm so scared to ask. Thank you for taking your time in helping me. I'm still thinking about this past days, but I'm better now.
March 3, 2011 - 3:34pmI agree with you, it is a choice, but it is difficult to decide it. At first, I was going to wait for more time, but somehow it made me feel bad, because of making him wait, more with him telling me that he was so exhited about it...he always asked me it....We have a year being together, I know it's not a long time, but I considered it and also him...I really wanted to experience with him a sexual intimacy, but I did not have in mind that it would hurt, he did not even penetrate me..... and I may be honest that I'm just thinking in the day he will (in terms of pain).
Sometimes I'm also emotionally unstable, thoughts of: "he will leave me after that," or "Is he real with me" are there. I have learned from friend's experiences and relationships. He's my first boyfriend, so that's the way I don't know almost anything.
Well, I hope I didn't waste your time. Thank you, You helped me a lot. I'm so grateful with you.
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