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Am I pregnant? Please help me? Why is my period so messed up?

By November 3, 2013 - 6:11pm
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For the past few weeks, me and my boyfriend have been messing around only on Wednesdays. Um he pretty much just ate me most of the time and I sucked his penis. He probably fingered me about once or twice. Now I know that I didn't do anything that can pose a pregnancy risk but I basically missed my period. I took a pregnancy test last Friday and it was negative. I've always been irregular but my periods usually come between the 16-20 of every month and it's now the 3rd of Nov and I've not seen Aunt Flo yet! I missed October. Now, I don't know if this information is useful but about 2 or 3 weeks ago, my tonsils were slightly inflamed and I had kind of a high blood pressure of 145/77. For the inflammation, I was taking like two different meds which were amoxicillin and claratin. Could this have possibly thrown it off? Could it have been the stress from worrying that I'm pregnant? Could I just be changing cycles? I don't have any symptoms :( Am I pregnant??? Please immediate answers :((((( Btw I got some discharge yesterday. I've heard that is a sign that your period is about to come soon.

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I'm going to take another test this morning. Thank you.

November 4, 2013 - 5:54am
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Hi Nickia26,

Welcome to EmpowHER.  You can not get pregnant, if you and your boyfriend just had oral sex.  Many things can cause changes to your cycles. But definitely, stress can delay ovulation and your period. If your period does not come, you might need to let your doctor know. Hope this was helpful?



November 4, 2013 - 3:56am
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