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am i virgen or not?

By December 13, 2009 - 12:48am
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hi i m worried as i dont had sex in my life i dont knw even how to lose virganty i met my bf he said he did sex but i m not sur cox i dont had pain dont feel hiz dick in even dont had bleeding plz tel me wot happend then?...........................................

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Mona liza85,

May I ask how old you are?

Are you saying that you are not sure if your boyfriend's penis was inside your vagina?

You do not have to bleed during sex; some women do bleed the first time, others do not...so this is not an indicator of "losing virginity".

I am very concerned that you are too young to be having sexual intercourse if you do not even know what this is. Have you had any form of sexual education in school, and if so, please write back and let us know specifically what you did/did not do with your boyfriend. Were you coerced or drugged? It would be helpful to write your question with complete sentences and describe what specifically you do not understand about sexual intercourse, so that we may help you.

December 13, 2009 - 8:50am
(reply to Alison Beaver)

m 23year old

December 14, 2009 - 6:24am
(reply to Alison Beaver)

i dont knw that penis wos in or not (i dont feel that penis wos in) cux i dont feel anything no pain n i had nothing done b4 like sex so m confused plz tell me

December 14, 2009 - 6:23am
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