am i what he wants?

By audra315 December 4, 2009 - 12:19pm

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me an my boyfriend have been together for almost 5 years here within the last couple of months weve been fighting more and more about sex we havent had sex in over a month and last night we tried for about 5 min we were doing fine but he got of me like someone had walked in on us he doesnt want to talk to me about anything hes always accusing me of cheating on him about 2 months ago he lost his job and the fighting got worst he was accusing me of cheating even more i stay home and watch our 3 year old son all day everyday with no help he hasnt really healped me at all since i got pregnant thats when the fighting really started but not like it is now i love him but sometimes i feel like im not in love with him he makes me want to go out and cheat on him but im not goin to prove anything to him because i havent even thought of another man since we got together i dont have any friends to talk to about this the ones i do have dont know what im going though (the 3 i have) and the ones i had before we got together he chased off (because they were bad influnces) every time i try to talk to him he changes the subject to something completly diffrent i dont know what to do anymore i want to leave him to have a break but i know thats not going to change anything its like im single now but i cant talk to anyone not even his guys friends about him when hes right next to me does it sound like i should leave him or try to work things out should we take a break to figure out what we both want or should i keep my mouth shut and just deal with it?

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Anonymous

Hi Audra,

I am sorry to hear about your sadness. I think your answer really depends on the two of you. Is he a willing participant to try and work things out? Is he happy with the issues you are dealing with?

If you really think about Audra's future, what does that entail? Is he apart of that? It appears to me that you need a break, that's what you explained. I will guess and say that you two live together. Is this correct? When you live together, a separation is bigger than just 'taking a break'. This entails moving out, splitting furniture, signing leases. Is this the situation?

I understand that when things are tough, it hurts in every direction. Emotionally, it hurts, physically it hurts and over all, everything hurts. Communication is key here about how you two will work this out, either in the positive or the negative. Is the communication at a stand still?

December 5, 2009 - 10:55am