I am 36 and have been seeing a guy that I really like for about 8 months. It wasn't until between Thanksgiving and Christmas that we first had sex. It is like he is not even interested at all. He has had a lot of personal drama since then so I keep telling myself that he is just trying to get himself together, but know I am really getting concerened. I ended up staying with him at his boat for about 2 weeks and we did not have sex even once.He is 47 but I don't think that is the deal. When we are out in public, he is all over me but he just doesnt want to have sex. I have tried to talk to him obout it and he said that he did not want a relationship based totally on sex which I completely agree with but there has to be some happy medium.I am wondering if he has an Erictile Dsfunction or if he is gay or something? The latter is hard to believe because when he kisses me I melt and yes my knees turn to jellow just like in books. I really like this guy and could see mysel with him for a long time if I could just figure out the sex thing. I am not sure if it all his personal drama or if he is just not into me? Any comments or suggestions would be great.
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