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Boyfriend not sexually attracted to me?

By Anonymous May 29, 2016 - 6:35pm
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ive been in a relationship with him for about 3 minths and we have been talking for 6 he was a virgin but i was not in the begining we had sex atleast one everytime we saw eachother and the more we saw eachother we would do it more sometimes up to like 3 times in a day but then he wasnt able to keep up with that and when i really try to look hott for him he like ignores it i mostly have to start it but he will say no to me if ge doesbt feel like it and i never say no to him because i always want it and there have been times with me on top and he was unable to keep a ***** while we where having sex we are both 20 years old last time we had sex he started it but that was 3 days ago and nothing since we both do not masterbate and he said he used to like once a day before we started haveing sex when i bring the lack of sex up he says its because he is always so pressured to make me *** so i try not to say anything not sure what to do tho

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Hello and welcome to EmpowHer,
I suggest that you try your best to slow down and see things from his perspective. You were already more knowledgable and experienced than he when you met. Not only that, but he was a virgin. You most likely are hard for him to keep up with sexually, and that does not mean he doesn't care about you. Its simply a signal to slow down.
Also, its a very good sign that he could be honest and say he feels very pressured to have sex with you. Respect that. Don't keeping pushing for it. Let him take a breathe, and keep in mind that he was a virgin when you met.

May 29, 2016 - 11:11pm
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