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Can i be pregnant, Im really stressed :(

By August 18, 2012 - 7:13pm
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Ok ive posted this question on sex and relationship questions. (at least the first part) but im becoming more concern with the symptoms im having :(

I got my period last month 7/13/12
My next period was on 8/10/12
I was making out with my boyfriend and things got out of control. (8/13/12) He came just by kissing me and touching me with his finger directly (his penis and everything was not touched at all) then after he came he touched himself and started to touch me with his finger, I dont know if semen was there or not, but if if was, im scared now..

When he started touching me I asked him if he had touched himself and he said YES.
once i heard that i told him to STOP.

I was on my last day of my period i was hardly bleeding at all. I freaked out, and went and got depo provera the next day. ( 3 month one) I still feel panicking and i couldnt take it so i went to planned parenthood and i got next choice on 8/17/12, They said it could still be effective. (not as much as if i would have taken it the next day:(

Im very concerned whether i can be pregnant or if i did everything i could. I also saw that even if you are pregnant you can get a period???? im not sure what to do, i dont want to have a kid, i would understand hasty comments from woman or ppl if i had had sexual intercourse of any kind with him, but i didnt even touch him, he only touched me and his penis was kept away, (and then when he touched me after, he had came but i told him to stop, and pulled his hand away) at first i didnt think i can become pregnant but there are alot of stories. I dont know what to believe.

I also have been getting ALOT of lower abdominal pain, i feel like super tired, and i also feel like its contracting (could it be my uterus)? (the pain i have are like really bad cramps) is it too much medication for me??? I dont know when should be a good time to get a pelvic exam??/? before my incident i was having really big blood clots during my period, and alot of pain.

i feel like super drugged up i knocked up as soon as i took next choice, I havent even kissed, seen my bf since the incident and no other kind of sexual activiity had taken place since 8/13/12 or before this date

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Also is it normal for me to have alot of lower abdominal pain, like BAD CRAMPS!! and if so what do they mean?

August 19, 2012 - 1:47pm

What i mean by touched is he (masturbated me) does that make a difference?

August 19, 2012 - 9:14am
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Hi bell88,

It would be highly unlikely that you are pregnant from being touched after he ejaculated. If you are concerned, wait until you miss a period and try a pregnancy test. If you do not miss a period, you are safe. I hope this helps and good luck.


August 19, 2012 - 5:34am
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