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Can I get pregnant without intercourse?

By Anonymous July 27, 2013 - 9:00pm
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I've actually been researching about the answer to this question for so so long and I am so annoyed why no one can give me a straight answer. Some people say that it can happen some people say it's impossible. But I guess I just have to describe my experience now. I'm still a virgin and I just want to wait until I'm ready to go get the pill by myself and condoms. But me and my bf got carried away today. I don't even remember exactly what happened because I was just so focused on the moment and I didn't remember but I did remember some things that worried me. First was I was touching him down there through his boxers so I really wasn't touching his penis but I didn't have any underwear on and when I did put it on I touched the part where my vagina was without washing my hands. And I was kissing him and I was on top of him like straddling him but he was only wearing his boxers and I was wearing a thong and some shorts. Like I said I was so caught up in the moment that there were probably times here we werent careful but we never engaged in intercouse and when he ejaculated he just ejaculated on himself but I wasn't sure if he ejacuated on the bed but I didn't have any underwear on so when I came out of his bed I guess my vagina touched the part he ejaculated and plus when I went to kiss him I touched his stomach where he ejacuated and he didn't even clean it it was still there like the semen. Then I went to he bathroom and took some tissues, wet it with water and cleaned down there without washing my hands. I really don't want to pregnant like this and I cannot believe I was so careless! I just finished my period this week and I'm guessing this is the time that I'm fertile so I am so scared beyond belief that I might get pregnant with this!

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I have a similar problem. Are you saying that the story above doesn't cause pregnancy? And what about other situations like:
• a guy has precum on his fingers and fingered a girl (the precum was not visible, noticed, or felt)
• a guy has ejaculate on his hands and fingered a girl
• a girl has ejaculate on her hands but she was using lube just to touch herself mot finger
• there was ejaculate on the bed and a girl accidentally sat on it without undewear
• a girl touches a guy's penis and touched her panties where her vulva lies
Please answer my question. I'm so scared that my boyfriend touched me and fingered me without washing his hands and I'm also scared that I forgot to wash my hands and I touche myself. My story is like the story above but all my situations are listed here. Please answer me asap!

July 29, 2013 - 10:44pm
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Bu saying it has to be pure form. Are you saying that the penis has to go in the vagina and ejaculate in the vagina? So are you saying that a woman can't get pregnant without intercourse? Except for in vitro of course.

July 29, 2013 - 2:23pm
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Hi Anonymous,

You will not get pregnant. Sperm must enter the vagina in its pure form for you to get pregnant. Washing, wiping it off or any other means will not get you pregnant if you touch yourself afterwards. Sperm also does not absorb through clothing. I hope this helps answer all your concerns.


July 28, 2013 - 7:01am
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