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Do i still have my bigV (virgin)?

By March 25, 2011 - 11:24am
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I always naked and make out with my boyf but im not sure whether he enter my vagina or not. But i fell pain for a few minutes only. I didnt feel pain inside. Could you please tell me signs of lose virginity. Thank you. I really appreciate if you can answer my question because im so scared and confused

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Hi Syasya,
If you are not sure if he entered you or not, I think you need to be more vocal about what you are doing with your partner. Let him know that this is your first time and you are concerned about the ways he is touching you. You do not have to engage in anything you do not want to do.

Have you ever had sex education at school? Are you familiar with the vaginal area? I guess I am more concerned that you are unsure what your partner is doing to you. Please let us know if you need additional information.


April 3, 2011 - 9:36am
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Thank you. But i would like to know how deep is virgin? How many meter?
Does it really really pain when cock enter the vagina? Is it must be bleed?
On your opinion, do you think i already lost my virgin? If i lost my virgin,
does my body shaped changed? My boobs or my butt? Is there any other way to confirm
that im still virgin or not? Im scared to see a doctor so i was thinking to find another
way? Thank you so much.

April 6, 2011 - 6:50am

im 18 now. I never bleeding before. The pain is sometimes only. But it only take for a few minutes. Sometimes i dont know he entered my vagina or not but im so confused.

April 2, 2011 - 10:57pm
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Hi Syasya,
Thank you for your question and there is no need to be afraid. Let me ask you some questions. Did you experience any bleeding during your "making out" times? Was he just rubbing up against your vagina? If he was only rubbing against you, you are still a virgin. If he never entered into you, you are still considered a virgin. Where was your pain? How old are you?

Please give us some more information so we can better answer your question.

Thank you,

March 25, 2011 - 11:41am
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