does normal sexual life need everytime orgasm????

By Anonymous July 24, 2009 - 1:12pm

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I m married woman with very happy sexual life.

I know how to get orgasm. My husband is very fine on that.

BUT SOMETIMES I do not get orgasm and it is ok for me and I allow my husband to finish his desire with me at that time but ..

My husband feels very bad at that time because he wants whenever we do sex , I should get orgasm.
He says it is not normal.

1) can u explain me that is it normal that a woman does not want orgasm everytime......??

2) with same sex actions of husband (stimulation of breast,clitoris and g spot) , she sometimes

could get orgasm and sometimes not............????

help me out

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Rosa Cabrera RN

Dear Anon,

Thank you for you post. Believe it or not, many women are not able to achieve orgasms at all. The fact that you sometimes have orgasms and sometimes you don't is completely normal. It may not be that you don't want to, it just does not happen.

Women orgasm from different positions or actions, you may orgasm from sexual penetration while another woman may orgasm from oral pleasure.

A factor that may prevent you from orgasm is the stress of believing that you HAVE to have an orgasm every single time you have sex with your husband. Try to relax during sex and don't think- just do.

July 24, 2009 - 1:45pm