he's 26, christian, extremely good-looking & with no shortage of offers from women, but lacking in sexual experience, does not like french kissing & will not let me kiss him after oral. during sex he insists on a fast pace with eyes closed, & when i convince him to go slow & deep, he insists on stopping right before he climaxes, as if he refuses to connect with me sexually. he has a male friend since childhood that he has traveled with & will be moving to another state with for 6 months, & then return. this all sounds very 'brokeback mountain' to me. if you think he's gay, please advise me on how to break things off. if you think he's not gay, please advise me on how to increase our intimacy so that he's not afraid to connect with me during sex. thanks.