I am 23 years old and i have been with my boyfriend for a year and a half. After breaking up with my ex of 5 years i finally started living my own life. When i met my new boyfriend things were fantastic, i wasnt jealous and i felt i could do my own thing. After 6 months jealousy started becoming an issue, then it started taking over my life. I constantly question myself when he doesnt txt back soon enough or when he doesnt kiss me enough (to my ridiculous standards) , when i feel like he's not into me or when i feel jealous i shut down and become cold towards him and blame him for things he probably hasn't even done. I have recently sunk to lurking his computer history and his facebook messages. He talks to other girls and looks at other girls pages a lot, but is this something i really should be worrying about? I know he loves me, but i just can't justify why he would stay with me. My self confidence is so terribly low and the anxiety from all this has crippled my life. I just want to be trustworthy and build my independence but i can't seem to figure out how. Any advice would be so much appreciated.