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how do I make him chase me ?

By Anonymous November 12, 2011 - 7:40am
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Hi my boyfriend keeps ignoring me and doesn show his love to me anymore.

I want to mkae him cry and hurt him just so he feels the same sadness like I do now.
How can I make him chase me and want me.. please I need help :(

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we have ben together for 2 years... he could never fo without me, since he turned eighteen which is a month agoo, he started ignoring mee.

November 16, 2011 - 6:04am
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Hi Anonymous,

Have you considered talking to him like grown ups instead of trying this whole "Chasing" game? I can only tell you that trying to make a man Chase you will only backfire and ultimately end up hurting you. Don't ever think that a man can't live without you because just as soon as he fell in love with you, childish games like this can make a man fall out of love with you. 

Good luck with your relationship,


November 16, 2011 - 6:34am

You shouldnt have to get him to chase you, he should want to chase you? How long have you been together??


November 15, 2011 - 5:29pm
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Hi Anonymous,

There is no good answer to this question unfortunately. The best recommendation that I can share with you is that men are usually attracted to women that are not "falling all over them". It seems the more attention they get, they less interested they are. Be self-assured with yourself. He may not be the one for you. You may not see that right now but keep your head held high and do not let him know it bothers you. Hopefully, your self-assurance will lead you down the right road and to the right man.

Good luck,

November 12, 2011 - 10:32am
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Anonymous (reply to Anonymous)

let hum i'll be your new boy friend if like .....!!!

November 15, 2011 - 4:07am
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