i am 26 yr old female. got married 3 years ago and till now i am not showing any interest in sex. Basically i am scared of the pain during insertion. I am interested only in foreplay and not beyond that. Hardly we would have had sex just once in a month. Also we are planning for a baby now. Can you please suggest me some tips on how to increase the interest in sex? We use KY jelly for lubrication. Also please suggest any lubricant which will also act as a pain killer.