HOW LONG DOES ONE PUT UP WITH A SPOUSE WHO CONTINUES TO GO OUTSIDE THE MARRIAGE?

By SHS2000 August 5, 2010 - 4:32pm

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MY SISTER...NOT MAKING THIS UP!!...IS MARRIED TO A MAN WHO HAS BEEN GOING OUTSIDE THE MARRIAGE FOR AT LEAST THE PAST 10 YRS OF THEIR 12 YR MARRIAGE. HE HAS BEEN CAUGHT THAT HE HAS GONE TO MASSAGE PALORS AND GOTTEN SEX, MET WOMEN AT MOTELS FOR SEX, AND HAS EVEN IN THE PAST BROUGHT OR HAD WOMEN COME TO THEIR HOME WHICH MY SISTER WALKED IN ON. SHE IS BESIDE HERSELF DUE TO CHILDREN INVOLVED AND HAS NO INCOME BUT HER HEART IS BROKEN!! HE GIVES HER THE EXCUSE THAT HE IS A SEX ADDICT WHICH SEEMS TO BE THE EXCUSE THAT EVEN THOSE IN HOLLYWOOD USE!! WHY CAN'T ANYONE BE UP AND ADMIT THEY ARE JUST CHEATERS?? HE CLAIMS HE LOVES HER DEARLY AND HE DOES TREAT HER GOOD EXCEPT HE DOES GET ON HER ABOUT MONEY WHICH HAS LESSENED HIS ACCOUNT FOR GOING OUT TO MOTLES ECT. WHY DO ALL OF YOU THINK YOU CAN CALL WHAT IS PURE AND SIMPLE CHEATING SOME NAME LIKE SEX ADDICTION THE WAY THEY DO BOOZERS WHEN A GREAT NUMBER OF PEOPLE WHO DRINK HAVE STOPPED?? HE HAS BEEN TO SEE PROFESSIONALS BEFORE FOR THIS BUT IT SEEMS AS IF THEY WANT TO BLAME MY SISTER FOR HIS ACTIONS OR MAKE EXCUSES FOR HIM. THE PERSON HE WENT TO SEE A COUPLE OF YRS AGO WOULD ONLY SEE HIM BY HIMSELF AND MY SISTER BY HERSELF WHEN THIS SEEMS TO BE A PROBLEM BETWEEN THE TWO OF THEM....HOW IS THIS RIGHT??? SHE IS REALLY DEPRESSED AND I FEAR SHE MAY HURT HERSELF IN A MOMENT OF FEELING SO LOW TO HER BEING. SHE GOES TO CHURCH AND HAS TRIED TO GET HIM TO GO WITH HER BUT HE INSISTS THAT WHERE SHE GOES IS NOT A CHURCH BECAUSE IT IS NOT OF HIS "FAITH" THOUGH HE HAS NOT BEEN TO CHURCH FOR YEARS. SO....WHAT IS YOUR ALL'S PERSPECTIVE ON THIS?? AND, PLEASE DON;T MAKE EXCUSES FOR A SPOUSE GOING OUT ON A MARRIAGE AND LOOKING AT PORNO ON THE INTERNET ECT. IT IS WHAT IT IS.....CHEATING!!! THANK YOU...