I am 23, he's 34. We've been together 1.5ys. We've always had a lot of sex, if not every day, then at least 5 times a week or something. Well, about 2 months ago it went down to like 3x a week and I started a huge fight (bad idea). I just wanted to tell him that I need him to show me more attention and I connect with him during sex. But anyways, the fight ended with me telling him that. And things have been great, up until 2 wks ago!!!
He is really stressed right now, and he even said that is why. And he got put on new meds that make him sleepy, so that's the reason for like 6 of the nights we haven't had sex.
It's been about 2 wks, and in the first week we had sex like 3x... then this week, it's been once.
So i know it's the stress and the medication. but it's really getting to me. This is how I connect w/ him emotionally...
I don't know how to bring it up to him w/o hurting his feelings or accusing him or whatever, cuz I know this is a sensitive subject for men.
Oh, and btw I still don't get why him being stressed would make him not want sex. I want sex all the time no matter how I feel. The only time I dont want it is when I'm asleep. So yeah, our sex drives are clashing big time right now!
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