when we first started seeing each other we had great sex for a year, then he moved in with me and for a year and a half our sex life went from good to okay, he was taking anti depressants a nd said his lack of interest was from the pills, so he went his Dr. and was given Lavitra, It helped some, but he seemed to ejaculate to quickly, so he would take half a pill, this helped, so he gets 6 pills per bottle, and splits them in half 12 pills, they last 3 months, We got married 10 weeks ago, and never had sex on our wedding night, he was to tired. Now he seems to have more excuses not to have sex, headache, he drives 2 hours a day to and from work, he's tired, can't it wait till tomarrow, I don't feel like getting up to take a shower. I feel unwanted, unloved, there is no intimacy, no pillow talk, no nothing. I have bought porn, he'll get off after watching that, I discovered he looks at porn on computer then will have sex with me, I have purchased alot of sexy nighties, I light candles, I have put dirty little sex letters in his lunch bag, I perform 90% of the oral sex, when we do it, he just lays there doesn't touch me, then he just has sex with me and I very seldom get off, I need stimulation to, I try to talk to him about it he says I'm pouting, or i'm just mad again. well no I'm not pouting I'm hurt. he just ignores the issue and goes right to sleep, the next day he will call me from work and act as if nothing is wrong. I feel lonely, and I'm bored. I feel more like his mother than his partner. Please help.
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