I am a working lady. The first trimester was a little too much for us to handle as I had severe nausea. My husband took good care of me, more than a father can do. Whatever I asked for eating he would immediately get it from outside or cook it by himself, as the desire to eat was almost negligible in me. Due to nausea, I am on leave. And we share a long distance relationship, where we used to meet once a month, or so, as he has to take care of his ancestral property, which is away from my workplace (14 hours journey). Now, due to my pregnancy and severe nausea he is held up for almost 3 months (home arrest), leaving all his other tasks behind.
Now-a-days I have a strong urge to be hugged and kissed, even if i pull my husband's hand and try to get me a hug, it does not stay even for 30 seconds. I do not know, why. There is no physical contact at all. I am the one who keeps hugging him, kissing him; but he would not respond to those as well; but do cook for me, get me everything i need. Also, my parents like him very much because he is a very understanding and caring person, even towards them. Now, I am confused; such a nice person, why is he keeping distance from me? I seek your help, yesterday from 3:30am to 6:00am I was unable to sleep. Morning he asks me, what happened, do you have stomach ache or what, why are you not getting sleep. I could not sleep due to these thoughts, he very well understands, I believe, but pretends as if nothing happened between us.
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