since i have a baby its difficult to have sex with my partner i dont feel the urge to want sex anymore

Hi Anonymous,
Thanks for your question, and for finding EmpowHER. Ah, yes...the post baby drought. When you say "it's difficult," what do you mean by that? Is it physically difficult because of a lack of lubrication, lack of libido, or do you mean that there's a lack of energy or time?
Here are a couple articles that may provide some insight:
Overcoming a Post-Baby Sex Drought, and Low Libido Advocacy Sheet, and finally EmpowHER: Sexual Well-being Community and Groups
Good luck and let us know how you are doing.