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i have been dating this guy for 7 months now, he gives me no eye contact during intercourse nor does he kiss me during intercourse

By Anonymous March 19, 2018 - 4:51am
 
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we fight a lost and he watches a lot of pornography.

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Hello Anon

Thank you for writing.

Your boyfriend may be imagining porn images when having sex with you so kissing or eye contact with a real woman would "ruin" his experience since he has become so exposed to porn.
Many men who watch a lot of porn get completely desensitized to real women. At only 7 months into your relationship you shouldn't be fighting at all - this should be a honeymoon period of romance and fun.
You simply may not be compatible if he is choosing porn over you and you're fighting a lot. Talk to him about how you feel - tell him you miss the intimacy and you'd love to be closer to him - and see if he'll work with you on your relationship. If he won't it's probably time to move on.
Best,
Susan

March 19, 2018 - 12:54pm
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