okay so weve been together for about 9 months now, were both only 19, but i do everything for him, he never asks me to, i just do, if he needs something or wants something, ill just go out and get it for him, yes we are talking materialistic things here at the moment, i spend alot of money on him and i dont think he realizes how much, and he takes it for granted, im loving caring and supportive with anything he wants to do, we have one of the best relationships ive seen, this is just a little issue that bothers me abit. he takes me for granted, since weve been together, i go out and i book a getaway for the both of us, and i dont expect him to pay i do, which is fine with me, it was my idea and i want to show him how special he is and to spend some quality time together, its abit hard to explain, but not once, even a bunch of flowers, even a suprise dinner, something romantic it doesnt need to be materialistic, just something even a hand written letter would make my day, but i get nothing and i dont know what to do. just sometimes a girl likes to feel special, and hes mentioned it a few times to me, but he always goes into it saying if i had the money i would (no he wouldnt) he rather spend it on something else, HE DOESNT GET THAT IT DOESNT NEED TO COST ANYTHING IT JUST NEEDS TO COME FROM THE HEART,
any advice on how to deal with it would be fantastic, i might sound like a sook, but it hurts.
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