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I'm scared because my period is not here...?

By Anonymous September 22, 2011 - 9:56pm
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My period is two days late and my breasts feel heavy and firm now (not hurting though). I have never had sex with my boyfriend although we foreplay but I know for sure that we never made skin to skin contact this month. I had underwear on and I always do. He did not ejaculate near my vagina but is it possible that precum could seep through my underwear and get me pregnant? It was also on my fertile days that we fooled around. I'm really afraid that I just want to cry because I am unsure.

Symptoms I have been having that I usually get on my period are acne and nausea. Except nausea is not bad at all, I just feel a little nauseous but not to the point where I'm about to actually throw up. My breasts usually hurt but this month it has not hurt at all but it does feel heavier and firmer like I said. I also got vaginal discharge that had brown specks in it.

I'm really afraid because I do not want to be pregnant. Like I said, I'm a virgin and never had unprotected sex with my boyfriend.

Is it just possible that it's my boobs growing? or a sign that my period is coming soon?

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Hi Anon,

If you have never had sex with your boyfriend then you cannot be pregnant. If you have underwear on, it would be really hard for sperm to get through both of your underwear, then somehow find its way into your vagina and get you pregnant-- know what I mean?

It is definitely possible for your breasts to be growing if you are still a teen and going through puberty just as it is possible for your period to be coming soon. Please be patient and wait for it to arrive.



September 23, 2011 - 3:28am
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Anonymous (reply to Rosa Cabrera RN)

Would it still be hard even if he didn't have his boxers on?

September 23, 2011 - 6:15am
(reply to Anonymous)

Yes, Anon.

In order to avoid scares like these, please use some sort of protection like a condom to avoid getting any sperm on or near you.


September 23, 2011 - 6:30am
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