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I'm worried I'm pregnant ! Advice, please !

By Anonymous September 25, 2011 - 9:02pm
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I'm 26, & had sex my 1st time, he didn't use protection. We had sex while on my period. I got dizzy & felt off balance a few days later. Then I felt sick & got sick. He never got sick & isn't now. I started sleeping all day every day and eating with no desire to stop & still am. I got constipated for a week too. I had to urinate alot even without drinking much fluids & I couldn't hold my bladder at all! During urination it felt like a mild orgasm that made me push hard while urinating. He has no std's. All of these things cleared when I was supposed to get my period the 15th this month. I'm 10 days late & tested twice, both negative. Instead of getting my period I've got cramps, swollen breasts, usual acne breakout, but when I urinate the same fibrous dischare was present almost a week but no blood it was white, & happened mainly in a.m. Ever since I lost my virginity with him on the 21st last month I've had this weird tightness in my lower stomach that is still present & kind of bloated. The last time we slept together was the 29th or 30th last month. I've had an eating disorder 12yrs, but I wasn't underweight then, close to it though. None of this seems normal... Please give advice!

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Hi Anon,

It actually sounds like you are so stressed out about the possibility of being pregnant, that you were making yourself physically sick. Now that you are better, it is probably still stress-related if you haven't had your period and have two negative pregnancy tests. Are you normally regular? Stop thinking about the possibility of being pregnant and you will see that your period will come but the more you stress, the longer you'll keep waiting for it to come.

One thing I cannot stress enough though: If you are young and unprepared for a child, please do not actively engage in sex. If you still choose to do so, use protection no matter what. A condom can and will protect you against pregnancy and STD's. It is not worth taking chances when it comes to either one of these matters.



September 26, 2011 - 3:45am
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