I'm 18 years old and my boyfriend and I have recently become sexually active within the past week or so. It's only been twice, but the last time we had sex, I had trouble with having an orgasm. We had gone at it for awhile and he finally came, but it was difficult for us both for me to get to that point. I'm not dumb when it comes to sex, even though I'm 18. I've had orgasms before, some difficult, some not. But only a few were with boyfriends. I can't have one from penetration, but I can have one by stimulating the clit the right way... something that, sadly, my boyfriends couldn't get right. I'm the only one that can do it the right way cause I know what to do and what not to do I guess. Sometimes I think there's something wrong with me though. And after awhile of trying to have one, I'll become dry. Which almost embarrasses me. I can't help it. And I fear that he'll think I'm not turned on by him. It's not that I'm not turned on, because really am. I can't help it. Is it like this for others, or am I the only one and just doomed for a sex life without many orgasms? Any help or advice would be strongly appreciated. Thank you.
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