Ok its been about a year that my boyfriend and I haven't been intimate. But I have to admit that in some way its my fault. Ok about a year and 1/2 ago we were playing around, it turned into 4 play and soon after into sex but the sex was for about 5-7 mins!!! Rite after we were done I told him that why he couldn't last much longer I didn't even get the chance to even start he was just in and out. I have to admit I did sound cruel but hey I was extremely horny, mad and frustrated. After that we had sex in August of last year and since August until today July 13, 2010 we haven't been intimate. I have talked to him and rite now he's under a lot of stress. He says that he's so stressed out that he doesn't think about sex and that what I had said to him about a year ago also affected him mentally. I don't. know what to do anymore... I'm also stressing out too cuz everything else in our relationship is good we just don't have sex anymore... This November it will be 3 years together n I don't want to loose him. What do I do???
All user-generated information on this site is the opinion of its author only and is not a substitute for medical advice or treatment for any medical conditions. Members and guests are responsible for their own posts and the potential consequences of those posts detailed in our Terms of Service.