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By March 1, 2012 - 9:44pm
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Hey I have uh okay im desparate, uhm I know Im not a woman but she would never do this but uh, okay my girlfriend's period she said was two to three days late and lasted shorter than usual in both Jan and February, and she says that in Feb she had a blood clot and that she has never had one before. (shes only 15 about to be 16) but heres the thing we have never had sex. NEVER! i mean we have fooled around but never any intercourse. Yet we are worried because it was right at the end of december when we last fooled around (we live in different states) and it is possible that a little bit of sperm had been on my fingers and in there (but i cannot be sure at all, i cant remember, but it doesnt seem likely, but its still possible, butif there had been it wouldnt have been much at all or else i would have noticed). Im not sure but that would have been the only way it could of. And weve looked up symptoms and everything and she thought she had a miscarriage and she can't ask to be taken to a doctor or anything because she would have to tell her parents and shes afraid if she went to the doctor and found out she was pregnant or did indeed have a miscarriage then, things would just get suddenly very bad. Im sorry to just barge in on your conversation but im desparate. Because there are so many things that could have caused her late period and the blood clot and maybe we are just being paronoid but, hell she has no way of getting a pregnancy test either so what should we do? I am just very confused and would like some answers. Please. Please

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If there was no intercourse or penetration, It's unlikely she will be pregnant.  The cramps and all other symptoms are from her period or many other conditions that can cause this.  Like having Ovarian cycsts, Fibroids, Endometriosis, Pelvic Inflammatory Disease. She should see a doctor soon.
March 5, 2012 - 4:43am

she said that the blood was brownish and that she is feeling bad all day, cramps, stomach aches, head aches, back aches, so im trying to remain calm so not to scare her but i am scared. what do u think?

March 2, 2012 - 3:27pm
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Hi Ireallyhopenot,

Welcome to EmpowHER.  It's very unlikely, you girlfriend will be pregnant without intercourse.  Penetration is needed in order for the sperm to live and swim up the vagina. If there was no sex, she has nothing to be worry about. Having small blood clots while on your period, it's a normal thing to happen.  If she is still concerned about the changes in her cycle and the clots are too many or large, then she should see a doctor.   Clots can also be cause by many other conditions.

Here is a link that might help





March 2, 2012 - 4:25am
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Thank you so much for your quick response Daisy, but I just called her up this morning and she said that she thinks she has had some spotting this morning. Also aside from this, I was just wondering around how many months after getting pregnant should you start seeing the (im sorry I don't rightly know the terms) but you start seeing the belly grow and it is obviously seen that you are pregnant?

March 2, 2012 - 5:32am
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