THE LOVE OF MY LIFE FROM H.S. HAS TOLD ME HE WANTS TO TRY A RELATIONSHIP WITH ME. HE HAS ASPBERGERS. HE KEEPS ENDING IT WHEN WE GET CLOSE IS THIS NORMAL?

By Anonymous September 3, 2013 - 7:59pm

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I HAVE BEEN BEST FRIENDS WITH MY H.S. CRUSH FOR 27 YEARS. I JUST NOW FIGURED OUT HE HAS ASPBERGERS. WE NEVER DATED I JUST WAS ALWAYS IN LOVE WITH HIM. I WAS MARRIED FOR 20 YEARS TO ANOTHER MAN. WHEN MY MARRIAGE ENDED HE WANTED TO TRY A RELATIONSHIP WITH ME. I DO LIVE 2,000 MILES AWAY. HE HAS TOLD ME 3 TIMES NOW HE ISN'T
FEELING IT. EVERYTIME WE GET CLOSER. I KNOW HE LOVES ME LIKE I DO HIM. IM GOING TO TAKE A TRIP TO C HIM REAL SOON. WHAT DO I DO TO GET HIM TO KNOW I'M NOT GOING ANYWHERE?

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Anonymous

Hi Anon

Welcome to EmpowHER. You need to have a good talk and ask him what he wants out of you two or if he even wants more then a friendship. He might be scared, since you both have had a friendship for so many years. His condition might also play a role in his decision making. But, good communication is the most important thing, especially when starting a relationship.

Best,

Daisy

September 4, 2013 - 5:42am