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M married n trying to conceive but when my hubby goes inside me his penis goes dead n comes out ,all this hppen during ovulation and when i dont ovulate we do everything easily.why ds happening???

By Anonymous January 28, 2017 - 7:00am
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Hi, Anon.

Thanks for your post.

It sounds like he is feeling anxious or stressed during the times he knows you are ovulating - when the sex is happening in order to get you pregnant, and not only for sexual enjoyment as before. Men (and women) can feel pressure to ...perform for lack of a better word. Where sex used to be spontaneous, it's now more planned. Also, does he really want to have a child? Some men think they do, but when it actually comes time to make it happen, there might be some lingering doubt on his part.

Until you talk openly about this with your husband you can only guess as to why this is happening. I hope he will be open to talking about it with you. Sharing his feelings will help.

Keep us updated.


January 28, 2017 - 7:42am
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