Ive been married for 16 yrs and we have had our problems but one of the recent is sex. I dont seem to want to have sex with HIM. I love him but like i said we have our fair share of marital problems. There has been trust issues with him and low self esteem on my part. But ive recently been working out and have lost 30 lbs and i have changed my confidence is better and i feel better. My husband wants sex almost everyday and I dont. I dont know what to do. He tells me he gets stressed and that calms him but that makes me feel like a piece of meat.