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My Bf Wants To Stop Having Sex

By November 22, 2010 - 4:09pm
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Basically my boyfriend is paranoid about me becoming pregnant, and when I say paranoid I mean paranoid! He even thinks I'm pregnant if I'm on my period. So recently he has decided that he doesn't want to have sex any more, and seeing as we are only 17, and a baby isn't right for us at the minute, I accept this decision. I'm still finding it hard to adjust though. I accept his decision and I don't want to force him into anything. But it's just a shock to have gone from having sex or even just talking about it every other day, to nothing at all. He also likes to feel my body, and teases me a lot, which doesn't help. Because when I'm all geared up and ready to go, he just stops because hes not ready for sex. I don't know what to do, it's making me feel not as close to him, but I don't want to force him into anything. I just want to know how I can adjust to this new life of abstinence. Especially seeing as I'm naturally very motherly, and I would love a baby, as naive and silly as that sounds.

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