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Is my boyfriend gay?

By Anonymous March 11, 2018 - 1:03pm
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How would i know if my boyfriend is gay? We have been dating for a long time now. And we have a good sex life but i keep getting that gay vibe from him. I am sorry if this is too much information but once i tried to play with him from the behind and he just turned off quickly,and said he doesn’t like it. I am afraid to ask him directly.. so what should i do?

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Hello. Thank you for posting.

Unless you ask him and accept (whatever) his answer is, there is nothing else to do.
I'm not at all sure what you mean by "getting that gay vibe from him." Just because he didn't like whatever you were trying to do to him (from behind), doesn't necessarily mean he is gay. Some people have certain things they like and don't like during sex.


March 11, 2018 - 3:17pm
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