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My boyfriend went to the washroom and peed and i have no idea if he pre-cummed or not and he had wash his hands properly and an hour later, he fingered me. And i'm worried that i might get pregnant because of it. PLEASE HELP :((

By Anonymous January 14, 2012 - 5:58pm
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Please help! :(

see i have a question to ask.
Me and my mate had this somewhat safe sex because we were both in our clothes on and my concern is.
My phone rang and i went down to go and answer the phone, and he came to me saying that he'll just go to the washroom and pee. (we didnt do dry humping at all. and we were again in our clothes on). so after the phone conversation i went up and had this clothes on sex thing and my concern is before the phone rang we were having the safe clothes on sex (no intercourse). and when the phone rang he peed like 10:45am and when we got back on the bed doing the safe sex thing, we decided to insert his finger on me. and that was like 11:30am. like merely an hour after he go and went to pee. And i'm concern that, what if he precum'd and he even WASHED he's HANDS properly. is there a tendency i could be pregnant because he might have precum even though he didn't know he didn't and he have inserted he's finger (fingered me) into my vagina like an hour later.

Is that still considered safe? because that safe clothes on sex. he left and i took a shower like probably 15 mins later after he left and few hours later perhaps at night i noticed that i have brown spots on my underwear and i'm starting to FREAK OUT about it.
I'm freaking out if i will be pregnant and i'm just 17 and we were clothes on sex no dry humping at all he just fingered me AFTER an hour later of him heading to the washroom and peed.

And i don't if he did precum or not but if he did, did the precum or the sperm (if der is or no have no idea) have been washed away already from his hands? Because he have properly washed he's hands.

I'm still young to be pregnant. :((((

I have searched thru out the internet about these kinds of concernities and by the way he was wearing 3 layerd lower body clothing.
He's underwear, he's boxers, and he's jeans so he didn't squirt at all because it was safe clothes on sex. but my real concern is that
him peeing and he i don't know maybe precum and wash he's hands. Then few few minutes later decided to finger me. is that STILL SAFE!!!


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Hi Anonymous,

Please try to relax. You cannot get pregnant through dry sex or outercourse. Even if he had ejaculated, sperm does not travel through clothing. Him going to the bathroom makes no difference if he fingered you after since there was no sperm involved and he washed his hands. You cannot be pregnant, so take a deep breathe and relax.

You may also want to read this: https://www.empowher.com/community/share/outercourse-dry-humping-dry-sex-and-other-sexual-behaviors

Good Luck,


January 15, 2012 - 8:14am
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