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my boyfriend wont have sex with me.

By Anonymous December 20, 2010 - 11:00am
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This is the typical story about how me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost two years now and we aren't having sex. Our relationship is great, there is cuddling, dates, romance but he never wants to have sex. We use to have sex every night we were together but it was always at his house and we had to be quiet because he had a roommate and i live at my grandparents which then we have to make it descrete. I thought things would have changed on my birthday where we had a fabulous romantic night and had a hotel room and said he didn't want to do anything just wanted to go to sleep. I was so angry i couldn't sleep - I woke up in the middle of the night crying because i felt like i wasn't good enough or that he didn't love me - i dont know... we talk about marriage and living together having a family. but i dont want to be in a relationship where there isn't sex. not only sex just being with him. and to add to the whole thing our sex went to just quickies. even if though it didn't need to be. no romance. no foreplay. five minutes - the end. what do i do? i bring it up and he gets mad or ignores it. im bored. and i know he has to be... what do i do?

i'm 20 and he's 24.

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