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my fiance is insecure and wont have sex

By Anonymous July 27, 2014 - 3:03am
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Ive been living with my partner for 4 years now i'm 24 and hes 29, we had lots of sex to begin with then it died down to every couple of weeks which i was fine with. buy then it just stopped and the last time we had sex was last may (year and 2mnths ago) i feel ugly and frustrated i get snappy at him. we still love each other and have nice timrs he recently proposed! But no engagement sex just rolled over to sleep. i know hes put on weight but i always still called him sexy and handsome. Ive tried everything subtly wearing nxt to nothing around house, setting the scene in the bedroom, stroking his body on couch or in bed but nothing he just says what u doing like im a freak.

i tried just coming out with it saying i feel ugly everytime u knock me back you need to get some help. and his response was everythings not about sex! Like its my fault. im at the end of my tether ive tried to be understanding but if hes not willing try lose weight or have sex he obviously cant care that much? It makes me resent him and i wont marry him like this. now its got to the stage where i make remarks and disregard his feelings see how he likes it, if someone is having sec on tb i just say oh its alright for some or shes lucky.

im not gorgeous but im not ugly or fat and look after myself. ive even considered getting a prostitute

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