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my husband is ignoring me and my feelings

By June 20, 2013 - 6:54am
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me and my husband are getting into business,but im doing most of the paper works,and looking out for the making of the place for our business... we had a talk regarding getting a real life already,meaning setting aside his "gaming life" on online computer games... but recently he secretly registered a new game to play, when i caught him several times he keep on telling me he just wanted to see the game play.. but for 4 consecutive days?! i was mad, told him not to fool me! while i was busy working things out for our business he keeps playing at home! while i do all the work not to mention taking care of our 4 yr old daughter, driving and fetching her at school, cooking, etc. while he sit his ass playing the whole day till dawn to wake up next day just to do the same thing over and over again! he doesn't even sleep with me anymore! im so stress that i don;t even know which factor gives me the most reason to be mad at him... im getting all looking like an old hog while he's like still in his high school days! just this night i got so pissed i spilled my hurt feelings to him,he got mad smashed my things on the drawer, went down to play after telling me why im making it a big deal.. he deliberately made a fooll out of me with his "just wanna see the game play" now his addictted,im stress, been crying hard,no friends to run to at the moment and no one to talk to.. plus right at family dinner,he mad me look like a bad person, while everyone is sitting eating including me and our daughter he remained standing holding his plate as if he is disgusted to sit beside me.. all his relatives including his sis and bro looked at me in intrigued and told him to have a sit,he didn't even responded.. i felt bad,so i stand up and went to the kitchen,before leaving i told my daughter to stay and finish her dinner, ill be at the kitchen coz i looked like a bad person there.. i fell so hurt,disappointed and rejected... i dont know what to do, it's been 3 days already since we started being in bad terms... help... im so stress with the business papers on hold with problems, tending my daughter and running errands,i just want to have my husband back... he's been worst now... and im getting jealous coz he enjoys more time with his cousin playing that spending it with us... me and our daughter.. im getting so hurt and jaelous coz he prefer playing with his cousin and that stupid game than me... what should i do, i already tried warning him ill leave him if he wont change but of all people i know i cant leave him just like that,he knows i dont have much of an option where to run to,and he knows i love him so much i cant just leave him...

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